One of the most common struggles in my therapy practice: women who’ve been conditioned to believe they’re responsible for managing everyone’s emotions. Using real examples from relationships with new parents, I examine how societal conditioning creates automatic “yes” responses that ultimately harm both ourselves and our relationships.
I share practical steps for recognizing burnout symptoms as boundary violations, the revolutionary power of pausing before saying yes, and why taking care of your own needs actually benefits everyone. I also demonstrate how over-functioning prevents others from developing their own capabilities and authentic relationships.
This episode explains why boundaries aren’t selfish – they’re the foundation of safety in all relationships, including the therapeutic relationship. Essential listening for anyone who struggles with guilt around self-care or feels exhausted from constantly prioritizing others’ comfort over their own wellbeing.
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